Tomorrow I Become a Woman

Tomorrow I Become a Woman
Aiwanose Odafen
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NZ$ 45.00
Hardback
h216 x 135mm - 416pg
28 Apr 2022 UK
International import eta 7-19 days
9781398506114
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What can I do? ' she asked. You can fight, I thought, you can fight for your daughters. But then again, who was I to speak of such things When Gozie and Obianuju meet in August 1978, it is nothing short of fate. He is the perfect man: charismatic, handsome, Christian, and - most importantly - Igbo. He reminds her of her beloved Uncle Ikenna, her mother' s brother who disappeared fighting in the Civil War that devastated Nigeria less than a decade before. It is why, when Gozie asks her to marry him within months of meeting, she says yes, despite her lingering and uncertain feelings for Akin - a man her mother would never accept, as his tribe fought on the other side of the war. Akin makes her feel heard, understood, intelligent; Gozie makes her heart flutter. For Uju, the daughter her mother never wanted, marriage would mean the attainment of that long elusive state of womanhood, and something else she has desired all her life - her mother' s approval. All will be well; he is the perfect match, the country will soon be democratic again and the economy is growing, or so she thinks . . . Loosely based on the real stories of real women known to the author, Tomorrow I Become a Woman follows a complex relationship between mother and daughter as they grapple to come to terms with tremendous loss. This powerful debut by Aiwanose Odafen is a sensitive exploration of a woman' s struggle to meet societal and cultural expectations within the confines of a difficult marriage, a tribute to female friendship and a love story that spans two decades and continents against a backdrop of political turmoil and a fast-changing world.
' Tomorrow I Become a Woman is an accomplished and emotional triumph. With deft language and in-depth characters, the book explores female friendships, difficulties and loss. It pulses with life, and taught me a lot. ' -- Louise Beech ' Never have I wanted to scream, wail and rip out pages of a book in solidarity with our female protagonist Uju. Never had I been so invested in a character. Every moment I wasn' t reading this book all I could think about was Uju and what would happen to her, if she would finally be able to get out of her toxically abusive marriage. And in the end, in the middle of the night, when I finally finished reading, I cradled the book in my arms and sobbed with her, my Uju. There was so much of this book that resonated with me despite the difference in generation and cultures. So much of what Uju' s mother says to her reminds me of my grandmother' s generation - the infuriating hair-ripping internalised misogyny. Some of the things my grandmother had even said to me in the past. What makes this book so special and powerful is that this is based on real stories of real women known to the author. Uju and her friends may be fictional characters but their stories are real, and they are women that I know, women that I love, women that will stay with me forever. This isn' t an easy read, there are triggers of domestic violence but it must be read and shared. ' -- Di Lebowitz

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