Never Simple

A Memoir

Never Simple
Liz Scheier
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1 Mar 2022 US
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9781250823137
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Liz Scheier' s darkly funny and touching memoir-with shades of Jeannette Walls' s The Glass Castle and Mira Bartok' s The Memory Palace-of growing up in ' 90s Manhattan with a brilliant, mendacious single motherScheier' s mother Judith was a news junkie, a hilarious storyteller, a fast-talking charmer you couldn' t look away from, a single mother whose devotion crossed the line into obsession, and-when in the grips of the mental illness that plagued every day of her life-a violent and abusive liar whose hold on reality was shaky at best. On an uneventful afternoon when Scheier was eighteen, her mother sauntered into the room to tell her two important things: one, she had been married for most of Scheier' s life to a man she' d never heard of, and two, the man she' d told Scheier was her father was entirely fictional. She' d made him up. Those two big lies were the start, but not the end; it took dozens of smaller lies to support them, and by the time she was done she had built a farcical, half-true life for the two of them, from fake social security number to fabricated husband. One hot July day twenty years later, Scheier receives a voicemail from Adult Protective Services, reporting that Judith has stopped paying rent and is refusing all offers of assistance. That call is the start of a shocking journey that takes the Scheiers, mother and daughter, deep into the cascading effects of decades of lies and deception. Never Simple is the story of learning to survive-and, finally, trying to save-a complicated parent, as feared as she is loved, and as self-destructive as she is adoring.
March 2022 Indie Next Pick The New York Times Book Review' s "11 New Books We Recommend This Week," 3/10/22 Apple Books "Best Books of March" Pick PW "Books of the Week" Pick, 2/28/22"This powerful, conversational and -- above all -- honest memoir shakes hard truths out of the family tree. " --The New York Times Book Review"' You can still love someone who has caused you a lot of harm, ' Scheier writes. Never Simple helped me understand the truth behind this statement -- and the guts it takes to say it. . . The book reads like a Nancy Drew mystery where everyone' s favorite amateur sleuth. . . now possesses the courage and the self-awareness to turn her magnifying glass inward. Scheier approaches her childhood like a detective. . . going room by room, block by block and year by year as she points out the cracks between the fiction she was raised with and the facts she pieced together on her own. . . By the time I reached the end, I was grateful that Scheier had weathered the storm. " --The New York Times, Group Text column"[I]mmediately the reader is hooked. . . Never Simple shows a child and young adult who, while living in chaos, has a maturity and wisdom that most adults don' t possess. As a result, our response is more profound awe than merely a sympathetic aww. . . Every reader will take something different from this memoir. Some will see themselves while others will empathize. But in the end, Never Simple reminds every reader that no matter who we are and where we come from, life is never simple. " --USA Today"Scheier. . . debuts with a stunning and generous account of living with her mother' s mental illness. . . Readers will find it hard to part with this one. " --Publishers Weekly, *starred* "[A] jaw-dropping story. . . that will spark necessary conversation about transparency, mental health, abuse, addiction, housing, parenthood, egg donation, elder care, but also questions about love, sexuality, friendship, obligation, responsibility, devotion, and freedom. While this sounds like one kitchen sink of a book, what Scheier does is reveal the way these issues so often are impossible to untangle from one another. " --Observer"[Never Simple] blends dark humor with heartache. . . [Scheier' s] rich imagery and engaging prose will keep readers turning the pages. . . A brave exploration of a difficult but forever-connected mother-daughter relationship. Scheier' s memoir will appeal to many, thanks to its wit, unraveling mystery, and honesty. " --Library Journal "[In this] tense and heart-rending story. . . Scheier is sometimes as sardonic as her mother, as well as funny and frequently clever. . . Never Simple writhes with the sorrow and guilt only a deep and complicated love can arouse. " --BookPage"Sometimes raw and other times wry, Scheier recounts the combinations of adventure and abuse, love and terror her mother, Judith, engendered. . . A tension between absence and presence permeates this memoir. . . Ultimately, Scheier reconciles these two contradictory truths of her mother' s persona. Scheier' s final pages are a moving confession of learning how to love her own children the ' correct' amount without subjecting them to the damaging extremes of a mother' s love. " --Booklist "[In this] touching memoir. . . Scheier illustrates how a child can not only heal from trauma, but evolve into forgiveness. . . [P]oignant, often horrific and darkly funny. " --Shelf Awareness"Liz Scheier' s beautiful book is a testament to the undeniable, indestructible love between a mother and a daughter. In telling her story she brings enormous sympathy to an exceedingly complicated relationship, and thus a clearer understanding for all of us with mothers. It' s a meditation on the subject of how much fear and dread can be tolerated by a loving heart. I adored it. " --Isaac Mizrahi"The complexities of a mother/daughter relationship are laid bare in this darkly funny, and utterly shattering memoir. Liz Scheier writes with shocking beauty and grace, never once turning her back on the truth. Never Simple is a brilliant, triumphant debut by a writer of significant literary talent. " --Augusten Burroughs, author of Running With Scissors and Toil & Trouble"Possibly the most brilliant, evocative, devastating memoir of what it is like to be the daughter of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder, Liz Scheier' s story is also one of resilience and compassion. The questions it asks are ones that every surviving adult child of a profoundly mentally ill parent grapples with: how strong is the maternal thread that enables the survivor to care for an abusive mother even when they become a danger to their world and everyone in it? Is it possible for those left behind to ever heal? Staggering, at turns horrifying and life-giving, Never Simple left me gasping for breath. " --Elissa Altman, author of Motherland "A riveting and poignant memoir of lies, compassion, and discovery. I couldn' t put it down. " --Jenny Lawson, New York Times bestselling author of Broken, Furiously Happy, and Let' s Pretend This Never Happened "Never Simple is a puzzle box of a book. There are questions to be answered: who was Liz Scheier' s mother, really, and what became of her father? How will this little girl possibly grow up and survive her mother' s abuse to be a funny, talented, healthy adult with children and a husband of her own? Scheier has a talent for setting the stage and placing you alongside her while she lays out the important and often gut-wrenching details of her life. Things happen in doorways and parks and other people' s apartments, and you can see--and feel--it all happening even if your upbringing was far less dramatic and painful. I understood how good a writer Liz Scheier was as soon as I realized she was making me feel nostalgic for the New York of my childhood--even though I didn' t grow up in New York. I really loved this book, and it deserves a big audience. It' s an absorbing exercise in empathy. And it' s a great read. " --Chris Schluep, Amazon Books Editor"[Never Simple] recounts an improbably complicated life courtesy of an eccentric, mentally ill mother. . . [D]ark humor. . . abounds throughout the narrative. . . [D]rama on every page, punctuated by shrewd wit. " --Kirkus Reviews
Liz Scheier is a former Penguin Random House editor who worked in publishing and content development for many years, including at Barnes & Noble. com and Amazon. She writes book reviews and feature articles for Publishers Weekly. She is now a product developer living in Washington, D. C. , with her husband, two small children, and an ill-behaved cat. This is her first book.
Status: Active
ISBN-13: 9781250823137
Published: 1 Mar 2022
Published In: United States
Imprint: St Martin's Press
Publisher: St Martin's Press
Format: Hardback
Height: 233mm
Width: 154mm
Weight: 300g
Pages: 288

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