Well, This Is Exhausting


Well, This Is Exhausting
Sophia Benoit
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From GQ columnist and Twitter sensation, this hilarious, clever, and eye-opening memoir-in-essays explores the ins and outs of modern womanhood--from finding feminism, the power of pop culture, and how to navigate life' s constant double standards--perfect for fans of Shrill and PEN15. Like so many women, Benoit spent her formative years struggling to do the "right" thing--to make others comfortable, to take minimal and calculated risks, to live up to society' s expectations--only to realize that there was so little payoff to this tiresome balancing act. Now, in Well, This Is Exhausting, she shares her journey from aspiring good girl to proud feminist, and addresses the constantly shifting goalposts of what exactly it means to be "good" in today' s world. Including topics as varied and laugh-out-loud funny as how to be the life of the party (even when you have crippling anxiety), navigating the disappointments of the dating world, and why no one should judge you for having an encyclopedic knowledge of reality TV stars, these essays are sure to move, motivate, and charm you.
"Benoit' s engaging writing style invites laughter while she sparks serious contemplation on a variety of topics. . . Readers suffering from a short attention span can easily read one essay at a time [. . . ] but will most likely return quickly for more. " --Booklist, starred review "A riotous collection . . . Heartening and hilarious, this is prime summer reading material. " --Publishers Weekly "Sharply observed. " --Kirkus Reviews "Sophia Benoit is hilarious and sharp in this vibrant collection of essays about what it means to be a woman in a world that won' t stop telling us we' re doing it wrong . . . [G]ive yourself a break with this funny, honest, and relatable book. " --Sara Schaefer, author of Grand "Well, This Is Exhausting is a delightfully conversational, funny essay collection that digs right into the heart of what it is to be a woman coming to terms with her personhood. Benoit explores what it means to be a ' good girl' by diving into parental divorce, body issues, crushes, sex, love, standing up for yourself, hostile workplaces, and the tired line between ' chill' and ' too much, ' peppering her advice with humor, poise, pop-culture references and a couple one-liners that had me literally laughing out loud. Readers might find themselves hoping they' re secretly Benoit' s sister, and therefore the direct recipient of some of her best life advice. " --Rebecca Fishbein, author of Good Things Happen to People You Hate "Frank, insightful, and incisive . . . I' ve known for years that Sophia Benoit is funny. Well, This is Exhausting shows that she is also wise, insightful, and has a Terry Pratchett-esque talent for footnotes. " --Mara Wilson, author of Where Am I Now? : True Stories of Girlhood and Accidental Fame
Sophia Benoit is a writer and comedian who grew up in Missouri and was correctly voted "Most Likely to Never Come Back. " She writes sex and relationship advice for GQ and has had bylines in Allure, Refinery29, The Cut, The Guardian, and more. She writes an advice newsletter Here' s The Thing where she tries to get everyone to ask their crush out. Sophia lives in Los Angeles with her boyfriend Dave, but usually only spouses make it into author bios, so forget about him.