A Little Give

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Sometimes I think that carrying - other people, the continuity of history, generational identity, the emotional load of the everyday - is the main thing that women do. In Marina Benjamin' s new set of interlinked essays, she turns her astute eye to the tasks once termed ' women' s work' . From cooking and cleaning to caring for an ageing relative, A Little Give depicts domestic life anew- as a site of paradox and conflict, but also of solace and profound meaning. In it, productivity sits alongside self-erasure, resentment with tenderness, and the animal self is never far away, perpetually threatening to break through. Drawing on the work of figures such as Natalia Ginzberg, Paula Rego, and Virginia Woolf, Benjamin writes with forensic candour of the struggle to overwrite the gender conditioning that pulls her back into ' the mud-world of pre-feminism' even as she attempts to haul herself out. From her upbringing as the child of immigrants whose culture she rejected, to looking after her mother and seeing her teenager move out of home, she examines her relationships with family, community, her body, and even with language itself. Ultimately, she shows that a woman' s true work may lie at the heart of her humanity, in the pursuit both of transformation and of deep acceptance. Praise for Insomnia-' A darkly thrilling beauty of a book . . . Benjamin' s talent is Arachne-like. The materials she integrates are eclectic, and the resulting constructed web of her thoughts is architecturally robust and resplendent with dazzling prose. ' -Tali Lavi, Australian Book ReviewPraise for Insomnia-' A short, ludic book about long white nights . . . Benjamin writes feelingly about the frustrations of being awake when you don' t want to be . . . Her moans about her futile thought-loops alternate with flattering descriptions of her radiant nocturnal consciousness. ' -Zoe Heller, The New YorkerPraise for The Middlepause-' Lucid and sophisticated . . . A restrained but wonderful guide to the convulsive changes of 50 and over . . . This is a book that yields valuable insights on almost every page. ' -Melissa Benn, The Guardian